Need Some Unbaised, Impartial Advice from over 18's in UK?

Your kids will hate you for putting them through what they see as torture.Please put them first but speak to them tell your children why money will be in short supply. remember you will be their for them when they are out of school cant beat a hug and kisses, you will soon get used to your budget drop.A career is ok but why did you have kids they did not ask to get in your way a couple of years then pick up again may not be at the same level but when they fly the nest they will return with your grankids.Popa